Being content and happy goes a long way. Many of us have big
dreams, goals and aspirations to fulfill. We have many desires that we focus on
and continually think about. That is just how we are as people and as entrepreneurs.
However, you must take caution in what you think about and how you think about
things. It has been said that you become and you get what you think about most…
so if you always think about success, if you always think about your goals and
aspirations, then in some way and some day through your efforts they will
manifest. As an entrepreneur you must always hold onto your vision, which
should fuel your actions. This is very, very true.
However, a lot of the times when we think about our goals
and desires we get discouraged, we may feel anxiety or we may feel outright negative
because we haven’t achieved them yet. This feeling of negativity will negate
your success. Remember that what you think dictates how you feel and how you
feel dictates your actions, which dictates your results. So if you have a
negative feeling about what you want but don’t have, then you may never acquire
these desires. It is great to take action, but if your thoughts and your
feelings are not in a positive place about what you want, then you may never
achieve what you want.
So, the question then is, how do we stay positive when focusing
on our desires? The answer is, don’t always focus on your desires. Focus on
what you do have that makes you happy. So many of us when we think about or
write our goals and desires focus on what we don’t have, and we never focus on
what we do have. This leads to dangerous territory because this leads you out
of the state of gratitude. Gratitude is the most important state to be in, in life.
Gratitude leads to happiness, and with gratitude, you will receive positive outcomes.
So for everything that you desire, you should think of something that you
desire that you already have. For example, in the future I want my own family,
but I also am so thankful for the friends and family I have today; I desire a
great and loving relationship with my friends and with my parents, and I have this!! With gratitude you operate on a
higher and more positive frequency, and that is what you attract.
We attract who and what we are, which is determined by how
we think. So in order to attract what we desire, we must acknowledge and be
thankful for what we already have. We must operate in a state of gratitude and
happiness. Because good only comes to those who are good, and people are only
good if they foster positive thoughts, feelings and actions. Now when you add
love and passion for what you do, you will be unstoppable, for to be in a state
of love, passion and gratitude is the ultimate human experience that brightens
our existence. Try it.
Instead of fretting about what you don’t have, appreciate
what you do have. Operate in a state of happiness and gratitude and see how far
you get in achieving your desires!
